THE COUNTESS VON HOHENLOHE: A PARABLE
(July 4, 2018)
As a young assistant professor, I enjoyed a grant one summer to accomplish research in some of the finest libraries and archives in Italy. Among these institutions were Rome’s Vatican Library, where I examined Petrarch’s original holograph manuscript of the Rime sparse, and Florence’s Biblioteca Medicea Laurenziana (Laurentian Library), where the director gave me a personal tour of Medici treasures in the vaults and arranged for me to meet with the director of the city’s Biblioteca Nazionale Centrale (Italy’s largest library) and its Archivio di Stato. What proved most memorable about my research trip, however, took place after my Italian sojourn had ended when I was invited to travel to Bern, Switzerland, to meet with the owners of the rare book firm of Volkoff & von Hohenlohe. The story of my encounter with Countess Adelheid von Hohenlohe follows. I share it not only as the story of an immigrant who made a successful new life in the United States but also as a parable for our times. Each element of the following narrative carries a second, metaphorical or allegorical meaning, and I invite my readers to ponder possible meanings for their lives.
After I arrived in Bern and checked into my hotel, I called the telephone number that had been given me for Volkoff & von Hohenlohe. I was told that the Countess von Hohenlohe’s business and life partner, an immigrant of Russian descent named Ivan Volkoff, would drive to the hotel at the appointed time and wait for me outside. I inquired, “How will I know who he is?” The answer was simple: “He will be driving a Cadillac.” While the presence of expensive cars in Switzerland was not unusual then or now, an American-made Cadillac was practically unheard of. Sure enough, at the hour agreed upon, a Cadillac pulled up in front of my lodging. The driver identified himself as Ivan Volkoff, and he was to be my chauffeur. He explained that the Countess lived on the outskirts of the city in a tall apartment building. When we arrived, I saw that the edifice was surrounded by a high fence and that entry to the underground parking garage was possible only upon insertion of a special card in a designated slot beside the massive iron gate. After we gained entry and parked the car, we entered an elevator. Ivan explained that the Countess lived on the top floor and that access to her penthouse apartment was possible only if one had a special key that allowed the elevator to reach the floor in question. He then inserted the required key and pressed the button for the penthouse. The elevator rose quickly, and soon I found myself in the home of a member of the German aristocracy.
Even though I had visited most of the major art museums in Europe and the United States, I was not prepared for what I next experienced. The parquet floors were covered with magnificent woven carpets. The first salon, filled with antique furniture, featured a French Empire-styled settee and coffee table covered with Meissen figurines arranged as if they were dancing. Dutch still-life paintings hung on the walls to either side of an eighteenth-century Dutch inlaid cabinet. The second salon included an Italian Renaissance chest and complementary furnishings. The third room I entered was the dining room, with the table set with exquisite china and silver in preparation for our lunch. It was in that room that I was formally introduced to the Countess, who insisted that I call her Adelheid.
As we sat down to eat, I couldn’t help but notice that the massive silver candelabra in the middle of the table carried the von Hohenlohe coat of arms. I struggled to know what to say in such a sumptuous and unfamiliar setting. I felt as though I were eating in a museum and was hesitant to speak for fear of making a faux pas. Finally I said, “I assume these beautiful furnishings come from the von Hohenlohe family estate.” The Countess smiled politely, but her reply stunned me and, in many ways, changed the course of my life (leading me to become not only an academic but also a serious collector of antique prints and books).
“No,” she replied, “everything you see, with the exception of the family silver, came from California; I have brought it back to its home, to its original continent.” I was intrigued, and after lunch the Countess took me on a tour of the penthouse and shared with me her story and the story of her family.
Adelheid grew up in a castle situated on a 20,000-acre estate in southeastern Germany, in the region known as Hohenlohe. As a child she had enjoyed the services of a personal maid, who chose her clothes and helped to bathe and dress her. Her father, Prince von Hohenlohe, was a general in World War I in the Kaiser’s army. When a fragment from an exploding artillery shell struck him in the head, he was blinded. Adelheid, who was born in 1913, the year before the Great War started, grew up with a father who was blind. As they visited the castles and estates of her princely relatives, she served as a guide to her father. Taking his hand, leading him through rooms, and functioning as his eyes, she learned to describe precisely and in great detail the tapestries, furniture, silver, china, and objets d’art she saw. In return her father would tell her the history of the various works and how to identify and interpret everything from mythological scenes to trade marks on fine porcelain. What she did for her father, she did out of love and a sense of filial duty. She never expected to have any need or practical use for the information he provided in return; she believed herself destined to inherit a life of wealth and privilege.
Everything changed with the rise of Nazi Germany and the outbreak of World War II. After a half-dozen tumultuous years, Germany lost the war and the country was divided into two parts. The von Hohenlohe castle was situated in the countryside in what became known as East Germany, and their large family town house was located in East Berlin. Her family had access to neither, and they lost ownership to the Communist regime. Adelheid’s father was deceased, and she was left only with her widowed mother and the family silver. With her castle and town home no longer available to her, she immigrated to the United States with the same wave of German immigrants that included the rocket scientist Wernher von Braun (1912-1977). She landed in California with her aged and ill mother and few material possessions other than the aforementioned family silver.
What does a German Countess do when she finds herself in a foreign land with little more than her title and none of the servants and lands to which she was accustomed? In Adelheid’s case she chose not to despair over incalculable losses. Rather she drew on the knowledge she had gained while serving as her father’s eyes and listening to his stories.
At this point in the narration of her life story, Adelheid led me back to the first salon I had seen in the penthouse. She opened the glass doors of the Dutch inlaid cabinet I had previously admired, and she encouraged me to tell her what I saw. I looked and told her that I spied several attractive cups and saucers of different patterns. She asked if any in particular set caught my fancy as being unusual. To my untrained eye, I could only reply, rather lamely, “They all look pretty to me!” She then picked up one cup and saucer, showed me the mark on the underside, handed the set to me, and related: “I found this cup and saucer at a garage sale in California and paid $26 for it. The children or grandchildren who were selling it had no idea of it significance.” I thought to myself, “Well, $26 is a lot to pay for a cup and saucer that don’t match any of the others.” However, I said nothing and waited for the teaching moment. She continued, “The mark indicates that it is of Swiss manufacture and dates from the eighteenth century.” While I had heard of fine porcelain such as Sevres in France and Meissen in Germany, I had never heard of any that was early Swiss. Adelheid added, “It is extremely rare and has been appraised at $10,000.” My hands began to tremble ever so slightly, and I quickly returned the cup and saucer to her. I wondered, “Why didn’t the original owners pass that knowledge to their children?”
Adelheid then proceeded to tell me the story of several of the pieces in the room: a set of Meissen figurines had been misidentified as to their date in an auction catalog; she, recognizing what decade they were, had purchased them for a fraction of their worth. The same was true of a Dutch still life painting that had contained an incorrect or imprecise description by the auctioneer. In the dining room she showed me a large painting of a landscape. She pointed to the lower right-hand corner, where I saw a signature and a date from the first half of the nineteenth century. I did not, however, recognize the artist’s name. She explained, “I found this painting in a California art gallery. It was quite dusty and had a small tear in the canvas. I recognized the artist’s name as an Austrian naturalist painter who is extremely collectible, especially in his native land. The gallery owner had not done any research because he didn’t think anyone would want the painting because of the dirt and the tear. I paid $200 for it and had it cleaned and the repair mended. The last offer I had for it was $40,000.” Once again, Adelheid’s knowledge, gleaned at her blind father’s side, had paid a huge dividend.
At that point my curiosity was piqued by an unusual all-white porcelain sculpture, about eighteen inches tall, of a hunter, a pack of dogs, and a stag. When I asked about it, she said, “Oh, I misspoke earlier when I said everything came from California. I found that piece in Utah in an antique store. I immediately recognized it as an exceptional piece of early nineteenth-century Meissen. It was undoubtedly packed in straw, placed in a barrel, and brought across the plains by a pioneer family. It would have been their prized possession. As it was passed down through the generations, the story of its origin was lost. A descendant, not realizing that it was a museum piece, sold it for pennies on the dollar to an antique dealer, who likewise did not recognize what it was.” Adelheid had paid next to nothing for an art object worthy of a museum.
While the Countess surrounded herself with art work and furniture that reminded her of her former life, she made her living by buying and selling old books. As with the art she collected, she had the ability to recognize important rare books for sale at auctions and in antiquarian bookstores and private collections, purchase them for reasonable sums, and then increase their value through detailed descriptions of what they represented. In essence, she made a living by drawing on her vast storehouse of knowledge and her ability to do research. She shared what she learned in relation to the acquired books and manuscripts and offered them to libraries and collectors around the world. When I met her, she had regained enough affluence that she was able to live on two continents, dividing her time between Europe and the United States. Eventually she retired to Solvang, California, where she died in 2010 at the age of 97 years.
Everyone with whom I have shared the story of the Countess von Hohenlohe has taken away different messages. Some have focused on the need to have a guide, such as Ivan Volkoff was for me, to lead or introduce a young person to influential figures or mentors. Others have commented on the need for credentials, such as the card to open the gates or the key to get to the penthouse floor, in order to reach where we wish to go. Some who have inherited family heirlooms have expressed their disappointment in not asking their grandparents, now deceased, about the history and value, material or otherwise, of those objects. Parents have shared with me their renewed desire to explain to their children what is most important to them, so that their knowledge or testimony or experience is not lost or forgotten. One message I have taken away is the realization that serving another person, such as the blind father, often comes back to bless the giver of service in unexpected ways.
I am interested in what lesson(s) the readers of this blog take away from the story of the Countess von Hohenlohe. (Perhaps at a future date I’ll tell the story of Ivan Volkoff, whose maternal grandfather was one of the wealthiest Russian landowners prior to the 1918 revolution, and how Ivan made his way to California.)
[Photo, courtesy of Ivan Volkoff, is of Adelheid von Hohenlohe on her 85th birthday in Solvang, CA.]
July 5, 2018 at 12:40 am
Madison, this is so tender and pertinent to mr. Right now, as I am helping my elderly parents dismantle the family home. The history and love of so many treasures. I was blessed to have grown up knowing many ancestors through family heirlooms. Don’t know their value, but to me and my parents they are priceless.
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July 5, 2018 at 4:42 am
No, no. No! You can’t leave us here wondering which analogy or analogies have been most significant to you! As you say, there are so many. The numerous “keys”, both physical items as well as knowlege, are significant reminders to me of covenants we are given. The reasons the antiques were not recognized–mislabeled, incorrectly described, having faults and even their packaging describe some of the reasons humans ignore and dismiss many of the important things of immense value that they own or of which they could easily avail themselves. My favorite analogy is that of the daughter of royal blood, raised in the castle where she is taught by learning/teaching herself of the magnificent things around her only to be cast out and separated from those things and the privileges of royalty but uses her knowledge from that life to regain not only a good measure of the things that surrounded her previously but to help establish her in her own castles very much like those she lived in with her father. Kind of sound like a plan of salvation.
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January 24, 2019 at 1:06 pm
This is one of my favorite stories that you shared with us during a zone conference. I’m so glad you posted it because I’m sure my notes in Italian don’t bring it justice. What I remember learning the first time I heard you share this story is how she learned from her father and then later, applied that knowledge with the result of great blessings. Reading it again, it is the lesson of serving others and the unexpected blessings that can come from simple, selfless acts. I’m going to share this with my family and see what they take away from it.
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February 5, 2019 at 10:35 pm
So often I think of these two wonderful, warm and lovely people. I was fortunate enough to know them from the time I was a young girl in Pasadena, California. Heidi and Vanya, as I knew them, were close friends of my mother’s. Visiting with them while they lived in Pasadena and then again in Solvang was always a treat. Just as you mentioned, their homes were filled with incredible artworks. But the most notable of all things in their homes where the two of them. Heidi carried herself with such Grace and was so beautiful with her gleaming and frothy white blond hair and flowing gowns, and it was always evident to me how Vanya with his dark hair and intense features, loved her beyond measure. Together they made an incredible pair, wonderful human beings and brilliant people. One story I like to relate with regard to Heidi is how she loved her gardens. But she did not care for the snails that would invade. Instead of killing the snails she thought it would be the kindest thing to gather them up and bring them to a nearby botanical garden where they would have a sumptuous feast. She did not do this with malice, only with a kindness and caring for nature’s creatures.
This story always amuses me. I would sit and listen to Vanya talk about history and the world for hours, totally enthralled and entranced. And Heidi would serve tea in her heirloom cups and saucers and Limoges plates while she talked about the artworks that fascinated me. When I first met them they were living in a modest home in Pasadena. While the gardens were lovely, the home from the exterior was nothing special. But the moment you walked in you knew you were in a very unique and special place. Years later when they moved to Solvang I was fortunate enough to visit with them in their gorgeous home. It reflected the beauty and sensitivity of these two incredible people so well. I consider myself one of the most fortunate people to have known, and called friends, Adelheid von Hohenlohe and Ivan Volkoff.
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July 19, 2020 at 8:07 pm
Thank you for sharing your memories of Ivan and Adelheid.
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February 10, 2019 at 8:07 pm
I am a rare book conservator/ restorer. I did work for Ivan and Adelheid. I would drive down to Solvang from Northern California and visit them at their home. Both were extraordinary people. Adelheid was one of the most gracious and kind people I have ever met. My visits were always a joy. This was in the late 1980’s and early 1990’s. Their home was like a museum, so I’m guessing what you saw in Bern was what I saw in Solvang, apparently before she made the major move. Incidentally she also raised champion long haired dachshunds. They also brought me down to their wine cellar where their were many bottles from the famed von Hohenlohe winery that they were considering putting up for auction. I enjoyed the additional information in your article, and I thank you.
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March 5, 2019 at 12:59 am
From Ivan Volkoff (dated March 4, 2019)
Dear Madison,
In a curious, roundabout way, involving Napoleon, I became aware of your extra-ordinary and heartwarming story about my Adelheid, my life partner of almost 60 years. You were able to present the essence of her being as no one else has done before. The warmness that radiated from her, indeed touched everyone who was lucky enough to enter her protective cordon of guarded privacy, to enjoy the real “Heidi.” Usually cool and collected to strangers, her real zest and outgoing nature, perhaps only I was fortunate to be a part of. My apologies for not answering your letter of last summer. It was received at a time when I was involved head-over-heals with a life threatening medical problem, that, over the months since, fortunately has lost its very sharp teeth.
Adelheid opened her great heart to me in 1951, when I was a 21-year old new-comer to America, a nobody, holding a menial daytime job in the defense industry and attending night school, while Adelheid exercised her many talents
in math and chemistry for a Nobel Prize laureate at Caltech, in a double-helix environment. As you stated correctly, she set foot on the USA in the “train” of von Braun and a multitude of the German post-WW II brain trust under Truman’s hush-hush “Paper-Clip” ruse. Brought over by the Department of the Navy in 1949, she arrived a couple of months before me. I came over under different circumstances, in a more plebeian fashion, but nevertheless experiencing the fulfillment of a dream, hardly expecting fate to carry me to higher and even higher plateaus.
We had met under unusual circumstances and our initial friendship, based on the shared old-world language and intellectualism, soon blossomed into a romantic relationship. Our devotion, concern and care for each other, and our fortunate ability of never having an argument, lasted a lifetime. Never was my passion for her diminished by the 17 years that set us apart chronologically, the only trivial misalignment in our union, a mere numerical one, that never, ever became a splinter in our flesh. Her death in 2010, disrupted our physical bond, but not the spirituality I still feel towards her, which even increases with the passing of time.
Adelheid’s relationship with her father was indeed extraordinary. She learned to read at age 4 to 5, and at age 7 and 8 was able to read legal texts to her war-blinded father, who was deeply involved in the German legislative process of providing new employment opportunities for blind World War I veterans, traditionally bound to tedious and demeaning wicker-work. The two b/w photographs I am posting show her in the fifties; in the one with her daxies, Elfi, Heidi and Bastl, she is leaving the Athenaeum at Caltech following an interdepartmental IQ test, in which she surpassed everyone involved, including three or four Nobel laureates. The colored photo was taken at a 1973-reception given by Takahito, Prince Mikasa, brother of the Emperor of Japan.
A word about our “Business.” In the fifties, I started moonlighting at a mail order Business in rare and scholarly books to academia, world-wide, while holding a position as Director of Technical Publications and Advertising for two large divisions of Teledyne. In 1967 Adelheid entered into a Partnership with me and we launched VOLKOFF & VON HOHENLOHE, Rare Books & Manuscripts, dealing with institutions the world over. Our specialty was providing small, large and super-large subject-collections in support of academic accreditation requirements for new professorial positions. In short, we guided the institutions in their acquisitions phases. Our expertise extended back into the late fourteen and fifteen hundreds, in seven languages. Of course, we also provided material for general collection development at Colleges and Universities. Soon Adelheid and I were invited into membership by two of the most prestigious and exclusive rare-book associations in the world, whose members, still today, maintain high standards for ethics and business practices. For Adelheid (and me), the usual, protracted admission requirements were lifted.
My planned, short “Thank You” somehow got away from me. It does so when circumstances permit me to review that bond of affection and love which, despite of our very divergent characters, let alone our diverse upbringing, should have thwarted. But, contrary to outsiders’ expectations, this infinitesimal symbiosis in the universe, held together and became an inseparable union.
Thank you once more for your wonderful contribution, which if augmented to by me, would fill a book. And, incidentally, I am working on my autobiography, hoping that age will not interfere with its timely conclusion.
To both of you, my sincere wishes for continued good health. Keep in touch,
Love, Ivan.
P. S. If you wish, you may place my letter, following yours for possible enjoyment by your readers. Omit whatever you feel is not appropriate; I mean that which is too long. I was pleasantly surprised by all responses.
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June 27, 2019 at 1:32 am
Dear Madison, once in a while just as his afternoon, I tip in the magic words and read again you description of my
passion as if for the first time. A sadness grips me, but only for a short time. Then my entire life spent near her opens
up like a flower and a warm feeling of contentment comes over me, remembering the union with her as a rare gift of destiny. Thank you again, yours, Ivan.
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July 19, 2020 at 5:42 pm
July 19,2020. Just re-read the whole thing. Ten years will have passed in December, when I lost her physically.
Spiritually she is still with me every day. I believe her care and love is responsible for my having reached 90! Of
course my doctor’s had also some doings in this miracle.
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July 19, 2020 at 6:09 pm
I had hoped to come visit in 2020 and help you celebrate 90 years, but the pandemic has put a stop to our travel plans for the foreseeable future. Stay safe, dear friend, and keep working on your own memoirs. I very much look forward to reading them!
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July 28, 2020 at 1:15 am
You have a “Rain Check” as far as your visit goes and I am still around. My cardio doctor says I should not worry so much about my ticker but rather install handles in the shower, which I did. Love, Ivan
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September 11, 2020 at 12:56 am
JUST HEARD FROM GERMAN FRIENDS THAT THE WHOLE ENCHILADA CAN BE READ IN GERMAN, IF ONE KNOWS WHAT BUTTON TO PRESS WHERE! AT LEAST THEY MANAGED IT, BUT I SEE NO WAY TO DO THIS.
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May 19, 2021 at 8:17 pm
I have had the good fortunate to get to know Ivan Volkoff these past several years, because of our mutual interest in things German, its literature, history and culture. He has told me many stories about Adelheid, almost always fresh ones of fascinating interest. I learned of the loss of her brothers in World War II, and of her indomitable spirit to overcome such a loss. Ivan is himself walking History, whose long arm reaches back through his Russian roots prior to the Russian Revolution, forward to his years in Danzig. His years in that famous city from its time as a Free City through the Nazi Period are to me more interesting and in some ways more compelling than the famous work of Günter Grass, The Tin Drum. Yes, we wait with great anticipation the completion of his memoirs that will be full of Adelheid memories and many other tales of their lives together, and of his individual experiences that include escaping the Soviet onslaught on Danzig and landing with his mother in 1944 in Lübeck where he attended the same high school of Thomas Mann.
Jarrell Jackman
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May 19, 2021 at 8:37 pm
Thanks for sharing. My esteem for Ivan parallels yours. The story of his grandfather’s family escaping Russia by foot after the 1917 Revolution has always fascinated me. To divide one’s immense wealth into three parts (lands, rubles, and jewels) was wisdom, but to have the first two of the three parts removed almost in an instant must have been a bitter pill. And yet to use part of the remaining wealth, among other things, to construct the Russian Orthodox Church in Danzig is extraordinarily poignant. Then to witness Hitler’s rise to power and to have the Fuehrer himself visit Danzig and reach out to the little boy who was watching the parade….. Ivan’s escape with his mother to the USA, financed by the sale of … to ….. Well, I mustn’t give away that story here. What a life he and Adelheid experienced! I also cannot wait for the Memoirs.
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June 17, 2021 at 11:25 pm
I just “celebrated” my NINETY-FIRST birthday with A. and some very close friends I STILL WALK UPRIGHT WITHOUT HELP, DRIVE A CAR AND THINK I AM 60! The Covid did not dent my spirits; on the contrary, I was
able to accomplish uninterruptedly, all my indoor bucket list projects.
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March 7, 2022 at 5:09 am
Alright, Madison, how about a visit NOW? Yours, Ivan
P. S. Just acquired a portrait of a Tudor lady which turns out to be *********. You must see it.
Adelheid must have been standing next to me urging me to go beyond what I initially set as my maximum. How easy it is today to bid over the telephone. During auctions I was always doing the bidding, she was pushing up my elbow when I thought to quit! In the end our purchases were always within “reasonable” limits
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December 30, 2023 at 5:12 am
It’s December 29, 2013, and I have made it to ninety-three-and-one-half! My closest and dearest friend Julie and I, have celebrated Christmas together and we are looking forward to slither quietly into the new year. On my dinner table, a large bouquet of yellow roses is flanked by two photo-graphs, one showing my Adelheid, the other one showing her late husband. We are commemorat-
ing the passing of my and her loved one, on this very December 29th Day, a coincidence worth noting and as long as we live, celebrating.
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December 30, 2023 at 5:24 am
Sorry for what happened with the dates of posting!
Under my name, the date should read:
“December 29, 2023.”
The date in my message should read:
“It’s December 29, 2023, and I have . . .”
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December 30, 2023 at 5:58 am
Just re-read the entire Blog#9. It is always for me as if I am reading
your text for the first time. Heart flutters, eyes get wet. Curious when
you will make your promised visit a reality. Don’t forget, I am living on
“borrowed” time, no matter how one looks at it and how palatable one
handles this circumstance verbally.
To both of you my sincerest wishes for health and happiness in the years
to come.
Love,
Ivan
P. S. Just talked with Jean Larsen and Dr. DeLamar Jensen, who has reached
98 and enjoys life.
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January 13, 2024 at 5:06 am
Oh Ivan…… I just met you today at the corner coffee shop in Los Olivos, Ca. My name is Mary and I am still chuckling about how you told me to take a deep breath when I abruptly joined in a political discussion with Alex(Ron) and Martin at your table and I became overly excited. I was so enchanted with your recollections of life with Adelheid and your passion for life and learning together. Her spirit remains with you and from the parable written about her, I am further encouraged to always give my best to whatever situation life presents as we never know how that comes back as a cherished part of the tapestry of our lives. I will certainly call you to accept your kind offer for tea, and please thank Martin for the ride home. It was just so enjoyable to be in the company of very incredibly bright and kind gentlemen who have gleaned much wisdom from their experiences . Thank you for so politely accepting my intrusion this morning. I can’t wait to read your memoir. Fondly,
Mary Lind Golden 1/12/24
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December 16, 2024 at 3:28 am
What a lovely commentary. You and your spouse were an enjoyable couple for tea
and I wish you would call me when you have recuperated from my stories and we can
have tea again. May both of you have a warm Christmas and a healthy new year.
With best wishes,
Ivan & Adelheid.
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